Marriage Love and D/s: Home Is Where The Sub Is

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Home Is Where The Sub Is

I was so lucky this week to have Lord Clay home every night with the exception of Monday. A rare occurrence but lovely just the same. And if that wasn't great by itself Lord Clay will be at home every night this coming week too. His work is great but the separation is sometimes a little overwhelming. Anyway a very pleasant week indeed.

It has taken quite a lot to get use to him being gone so much. Trying to balance my career, three teenagers and a home that has to be taken care of on my own most of the week has been a challenge.

I do it though and I still manage to find my way to girls night and my 4 hour shopping day alone every week.
I noticed this week while my D has been home that my weekly life has very little to nothing to do with him whatsoever and it was rather a difficult challenge to squeeze him into my schedule this week. I started thinking at that point that even though we are apart during the week we should probably still make and have alone time together.

We talk and text on the phone all day every day and always the same stuff, what are you doing, what did you eat, etc. That's not what I am talking about though, I am talking about alone, mommy daddy, sub

Dom time. What a sexy hot time we could actually be having and fortunately for us we have all
this great new technology to do it with. A nice bubble bath, dinner, or a game via Skype or FaceTime.

Or my favorite, pulling out my beautiful glass beauties making that Skype call and D commanding me exactly what to do with those wonderful glass creations.

I am not talking about just a nice web sex time but a serious D/s time to bring me back down off my high horse while D is away. Now most unfortunately he can not tie me up or spank me but he can have the more intimate chance to be able to assert his Dominance. And just like in the playroom it can be whatever he decides it to be. I know for me that having that very intimate and personal communication during the week while my Love is away is most likely going to be a very valuable tool.

I at times have a lot of trouble being the sub that I know I should be and especially towards the end of the week when I have been in charge for the entire week it starts to show even more.

I get bratty and forget that I am not the one in charge around here. So I think this might be an excellent idea for us to try and see if I can't stay in line a little bit better. I think this will also make D Clay a more involved part of my week, that way the next time he is home for the week I will already have a time that is expected to be ours.

Now I just have to wait for him to leave....... ;-)